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Family Law

We understand that divorce is a very stressful time for you and your family. Here are some questions that we are commonly asked about divorce, custody and support. We hope this information will help you at this difficult time.


Frequently Asked Questions:

  1. I have been served with divorce papers. What do I do now?
  2. Can my case be settled without a court trial? Is it a good idea to reach a settlement or is it better to go to trial?
  3. How much does it cost to get a divorce? How can I pay for a divorce?
  4. Can my spouse be ordered to pay my attorney fees?
  5. Does it matter who files the divorce petition?
  6. What are the grounds for divorce in Oregon?
  7. What are the issues in a typical divorce case?
  8. What is the difference between sole and joint custody?
  9. How is the parenting plan established?
  10. How is child support determined?
  11. How do I explain the divorce to our children?
  12. How will I pay my debts? Without my spouse's paycheck, I won't be able to pay my bills.
  13. If I leave the family home, am I abandoning my rights to it?
  14. How will our property be divided?
  15. Will the court order my spouse to pay me spousal support?
  16. If my spouse and I agree on everything. Do I need an attorney?
  17. How do I prove that someone is the father of my child born outside of marriage?
  18. Can changes be made in support or custody after the divorce order is entered?
  19. Can I get an annulment?
  20. What is the next step if I want to hire you to handle my divorce?

Answers:

  1. I have been served with divorce papers. What do I do now?

    You have 30 days to file a written response to the divorce papers in your case. If you do not, a divorce order will be entered without your input or approval. However, if you are served with a request for temporary support, you have 14 days to file a written response before entry of an order requiring support payments.

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  2. Can my case be settled without a court trial? Is it a good idea to reach a settlement or is it better to go to trial?

    We try very hard to settle cases because this is usually best for everyone involved. However, sometimes it is necessary to go to trial because one spouse will not be reasonable. There are various ways to put pressure on the other side to reach a reasonable settlement, including a judicial settlement conference with a Judge. This is an opportunity for a Judge to informally speak with both sides about the disputed issues and try to help them understand that they are better off reaching an agreement than having a Judge make a decision that they may both dislike.

    We have gone to Court many times to protect our clients' rights when the opposing party or the opposing attorney insists on trying to impose an unfair custody arrangement, division of property or support payments. While we think that settlement is best in most situations, we are ready to fight to protect our clients and their children.

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  3. How much does it cost to get a divorce? How can I pay for a divorce?

    We will provide you with an easy to read fee agreement. The court filing fee for divorce is $336.00. The total legal fees for a divorce depends on the issues involved and whether it is contested or uncontested. Our usual retainer fee is $2,000.00 which includes the filing fee. The retainer must be paid before we can accept your case. We take VISA and MasterCard for payment of fees. Many times family members are willing to help out.

    The legal fees are determined on the basis of $195.00 per hour for attorney's time and $95.00 per hour for paralegal staff time. Time records are kept on the basis of one tenth of an hour or six minute intervals. The retainer is kept in our Clients' Trust Account until you are billed for legal services. Our fee agreement authorizes us to withdraw money from the trust account to pay your bill each month.

    You must replenish the retainer each month to maintain a minimum balance of $500.00 in our Clients' Trust Account. If there is money remaining in the trust account when the legal services are completed, it is refunded to you.

    Of course, the legal fees for handling your divorce case increase the further it proceeds towards a trial. A contested case will cost more than a simple, uncontested divorce.

    If a trial is scheduled in your case, the fee agreement requires that you deposit an additional trial deposit in the trust account no later than 60 days prior to the date scheduled for the trial.

    If you are unable to comply with the terms of the fee agreement, we must move to withdraw as your attorneys.

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  4. Can my spouse be ordered to pay my legal fees?

    Your spouse can be ordered to pay your legal fees but it does not happen in most cases. Typically, each party pays their own fees and costs. If a case proceeds to trial, we often will ask the Court to order your spouse to pay your legal fees and costs, depending on the specific circumstances of each individual case. However, the final decision must be made by the Court.

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  5. Does it matter who files the divorce petition?

    It does not matter to the Court who filed the divorce case. There is no advantage to being the one filing the petition for dissolution or being the one who is being sued for divorce.

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  6. What are the grounds for divorce in Oregon?

    Oregon has what are known as "no fault" divorce laws. The only grounds for divorce are what the law calls "irreconcilable differences." Anyone can allege that the grounds for divorce exist and be entitled to a divorce order or judgment. This also means that the behavior of the parties, good or bad, is significant only when there is a custody dispute.

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  7. What are the issues in a typical divorce case?

    There are many issues in a typical case, including division of real and personal property, division of debts, possibly spousal support and payment of attorney fees. If there are children, there will be other issues such as custody, parenting time and child support.

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  8. What is the difference between sole and joint custody?

    The legal concept of custody determines how decisions are made about your children. Parents who have joint custody agree that all major decisions concerning their children will be made together. If a parent has sole custody of the children, all major decisions are made by that parent.

    Joint custody can exist only if both parents agree. If either parent opposes joint custody, the Court has to decide which parent should have sole custody. If your case proceeds to trial because you and your spouse cannot agree on who should have custody, the court cannot order joint custody.

    Joint custody is about decision making, not where your children reside. A parenting plan will be established that controls the questions such as where the children will reside, no matter who has custody.

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  9. How is the parenting plan established?

    Oregon law requires that all divorce orders involving children must contain a comprehensive parenting plan. Parenting plans include agreements regarding the children such as the daily schedule and holiday and vacation sharing arrangements. You will be referred to the Lane County Family Mediation Program, where you and your spouse will work with a mediator to try to create a parenting plan. If you and your spouse cannot agree, the Court will impose and enforce a parenting plan.

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  10. How is child support determined?

    There are Oregon Administrative Rules regarding child support. We fill out a worksheet with you which includes gross monthly income and expenses, including child care and health insurance costs (if any). These rules factor in the additional expenses if you or your spouse has other children. If a child resides primarily with one of you, the other one will be ordered to pay an amount of child support established by the Oregon Administrative Rules as a way to try to even out the expenses. Even when a child's time is split evenly between you and your spouse, child support may still be an issue, especially if one of you earns more than the other or pays more for child care and/or health insurance.

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  11. How do I explain the divorce to our children?

    This is a very complicated issue. It is very important that your children know that both of their parents still love them. You should avoid making negative statements to the children about the other parent. The Court requires that both of you take a class, Focus on Children, which addresses this question. It is intended to help you put your children's interests first during this difficult time.

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  12. How will I pay my debts? Without my spouse's paycheck, I won't be able to pay my bills.

    Often, one of the first issues in a divorce case is temporary support and payment of debts. If you and your spouse cannot agree on these issues, we will file documents to ask the court to order payment. However, it usually takes the court 3 - 4 weeks from the date the other party is served with the divorce documents before an order for temporary support and payment of debt can be entered.

    As a result, it may be necessary for you to take steps to make sure that you have sole access to some of the family funds so that you will have money for living expenses before the court rules on these issues. You may have to turn to friends or family members for help if you and your spouse are unable to agree to share the ongoing expenses on a temporary basis.

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  13. If I leave the family home, am I abandoning my rights to it?

    No. Everything you and your spouse own together at the time of the divorce is considered marital property. The home can be marital property even if it is held in the name of only one party. Your home is still marital property even if you move out.

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  14. How will our property be divided?

    If you and your spouse cannot agree on a fair division of your assets, the Court will do it for you. Fairness and equity are the keys to a property settlement. Remember, everything has to be divided, including your home, personal property such as furniture and appliances, investments, business interests and retirement plans.

    Sometimes it is best if the family home is sold and the proceeds divided. In other situations, it may be better if one parent keeps the family home until the children are grown. In general, all assets have to be included in the division of property in some way, even if the division or payment is at some time in the future.

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  15. Will the court order my spouse to pay me spousal support?

    Spousal support is often a contested issue in divorce cases. The question of whether the court will award spousal support depends on many factors. These include the length of the marriage, the ages of the parties and their relative incomes. Unlike child support, there is no established worksheet or formula for determining the amount or duration of spousal support. Each case in which spousal support may be sought has to be evaluated individually.

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  16. If my spouse and I agree on everything. Do I need an attorney?

    A divorce involves serious legal consequences for your future. Property and debts have to be fairly divided. Child custody and support as well as spousal support may have to be determined. You and your family could be living for years with the results of the decisions you make in the dissolution of your marriage.

    We think that this is a time in your life when you need good, experienced legal advice and assistance the most. Making a mistake in your divorce paperwork can be extremely costly. It is easy to miss an important issue that will be costly or even impossible to address later. Why try to practice law if you are not an attorney?

    The cost is much less for an uncontested divorce than for a contested one. It is well worth the legal fees to know that the paperwork will be done correctly and quickly and that your rights have been protected.

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  17. How do I prove that someone is the father of my child born outside of marriage?

    The court can force the parties to take part in scientific tests to determine paternity after the child is born. Paternity also can be established if the father agrees to sign an Affidavit of Paternity. This can be done either before or after the child is born.

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  18. Can changes be made in support or custody after the divorce order is entered?

    Yes. All divorce orders that include children, custody or support can be modified by the court or by the agreement of the parties. Property settlements cannot be modified unless there is evidence of fraud such as concealment of assets.

    Child support is often reviewed every two years or sooner, especially if there is a substantial change in at least one parent's income. Spousal support can also be modified. Custody can only be modified if there has been a substantial change of circumstances since the time the original custody arrangement was established.

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  19. Can I get an annulment?

    Under Oregon law, annulment is available in only a few situations. Some examples include use of force or threat of force to coerce a marriage, individuals who are closely related, such as first cousins, someone who falsely claims that he or she is old enough to legally marry, or a person who was still legally married to someone else.

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  20. What is the next step if I want to hire you to handle my divorce?

    Call or write to schedule an appointment to discuss your case, sign a fee agreement and start on the necessary paperwork. We know that we can help you and your family make it through this difficult time.

    To request a packet of information or to talk to one of the legal professionals at Behrends, Swingdoff, Haines & Critchlow, P.C. just call (541) 344-7472 or 1-800-391-7472. After hours and weekends, leave a message on one of those numbers with your name, address and phone number. Our fax number is (541) 344-6466. Our address is P.O. Box 10552, Eugene, OR 97440. You can also email us at info@oregon-attorneys.com but we encourage you to call with your questions so that you can get answers right away.

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